“There is no disguise which can hide love for long where it exists, or simulate it where it does not.” This quote is a stark reality that can extend sleepless nights and restless days to some people. Infidelity is a bitter truth which is hard to gulp down and even harder to throw up. In our lives, we are constantly in search of true love of a companion who stays by our side forever. And when you finally meet that person, all your dreams turn into reality making your life blissful.

While you are in a committed relationship, if you inadvertently come to know that what you perceived as affection is now someone else’s reason of happiness as your partner is cheating on you; you can clearly see your world crashing down in front of you. The pain of heartbreak is unimaginable, but the inability of not being able to express it or confront your partner is even more hurtful. You see your partner lying and betraying you, but you are clueless about what you should do next. This not only wreaks you emotionally, but also destroys your self-respect and confidence.

You can feel extremely helpless at times, while at other times find yourself trying to gather courage to speak about the betrayal. There are many doubts, such as what if you couldn’t prove it or what if your partner quashed all the allegations as false. The inner turmoil is too fierce to be at peace even for a second. The much needed thing in such times is a trusted ally, but when the matter is so sensitive, it is not at all easy to rely on anyone else for assistance. This is where a private investigator comes into the picture. A private investigator working on a case of infidelity is a professional whose duty is to collect sufficient evidence against an individual who is cheating on his or her spouse to prepare a strong case and help in getting justice.

These professionals are able to notice things that can prove to be strong evidence for your case. They deal with your personal matter with a sense of confidentiality and make you feel safe while fighting the case with your cheating partner. All the proceedings are performed in a discreet manner and documented adhering to legal aspects to refrain any outer interference. While everything is done within legal boundaries, your time and emotional state is their first priority. Many people take too long to approach an investigator due to many doubts which further reduce their chances of justice. Hence, you need to take prompt action before it’s too late and find a private investigator in Atlanta, Georgia through a reliable web based service for effective action.

Todd Redding is a veteran licensed private investigator that specializes in affair discovery, cheating spouse and alimony private investigations. The PI Agency is a 20 year Atlanta, Georgia based private investigation agency that caters to the needs of domestic and civil private investigations throughout Georgia, Alabama and Florida. You don’t have to face this difficult situation alone, please call The PI Agency , 1-888-777-0683. Best of all, “His advice is always free.”

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Honey, We Need to Talk.

It turns out that when it comes to talking about relationships, men know something that most women don’t. Despite a woman’s best intentions, talking about your relationship has a better chance of making things worse rather than better. It has nothing to do with his lack of interest or poor communication skills.

Most women want to talk because it makes them feel better if they’re upset. Guys don’t want to talk because it won’t make them feel better. Instead, it will make them feel worse. Either way, if a conversation is forced, both of you will end feeling discouraged and could possibly disconnect. The disconnection creates loneliness and is found at the heart of every argument or silence treatment, aging on your disappointment or resentment. It likely will create distance that can ultimately destroy your relationship.

The real reason a woman needs to talk it out, aside from resentment and frustration, is disconnection makes her feel anxious and, on a bigger level, isolated and afraid. The reason a man doesn’t want to talk about the relationship is because her dissatisfaction with him makes him feel like a failure. On a bigger level, he feels ashamed. His shame is way too big to allow him to understand her fear, and her fear keeps her from seeing his shame. When we try to overcome our feelings of vulnerability in opposite ways, by talking and not talking, all we end up sharing are disappointment and heartache.

It’s About Connection

The male-female disconnection is the biggest single factor in the soaring divorce rate. About 80 percent of all divorcees say they “grew apart.” This is very tragic because it is so unnecessary. A wife doesn’t want another girlfriend; she wants a deeper connection with her husband. But her female oriented attempts to get what they both want would fail even if he were less resistant. That is because their problem is not about communication. It is about disconnection. They are not disconnected because they have poor communication; they have poor communication because they are disconnected. At the beginning of a relationship, when you feel connected, you communicate just fine. You will talk to each other for hours. When the wife exposed vulnerable feelings, he responded with protectiveness and support. She fell in love because she felt emotionally connected and her belief that he would be there for her satisfied all her fears. The husband also fell in love because he felt emotionally connected to her. She made him feel important and successful as a lover, protector, and provider, which reduced any threat of feeling inadequate. The best chance of saving your marriage is to return to this state of mutually satisfying and empowering connection.

Todd Redding is a professional private investigator specializing in affair discovery. His 23 years of experience has given him a keen sense of how a marriage works successfully. If your marriage is in jeopardy of an affair and you need to find out the truth, call our agency for free advice. We will hold your hand from start to finish. Call 1-888-777-0683. Remember, “Our Advice is always free!”