Save it with Integrity or End it with Dignity

According to the General Social Survey (GSS) taken from 1972-2006, more than 18% of respondents said they had sex with someone other than their spouse while married. That’s almost a full fifth of married couples – and that’s the only ones who admitted it!

If you’re married, then you know that marriage is one of the greatest challenges of all time. Don’t believe me? Look at the statistics: over half of marriages in the United States end in divorce!

And unfortunately, one of the top reasons for these divorces is this infidelity, with a cheating spouse being listed as the reason for splitting up by 55% of couples. Someone finds out their spouse is cheating on them, and, in their hurt and rage, they want to take vengeance.

However, this hurts everyone, including the person initiating the divorce. But there is another way.

Private Investigators can Uncover a Cheating Spouse

In cases where a one spouse suspects the other of cheating, the best thing to do is often to hire a private investigator or detective who specializes in adultery. You can find them on the web, or through agencies like The Pi Agency ( This way, the spouse can get real proof of the other’s adultery – or lack thereof.

Why is this important?

As we mentioned, one of the most common reactions to finding out that your spouse is cheating on you is to experience hurt, rage, and pain. If you find this out suddenly, on your own, or if you let it fester without any concrete proof, it is more likely to impact your judgment.

If you use a private detective, on the other hand, you will find out in the company of another person – one who is unbiased, and who is used to dealing with these sorts of situations. They can provide you with excellent advice to keep calm and maintain your integrity and dignity as you choose whether or not to end the relationship, and what to do from there.

Festering Doubts About your Spouse

Private investigators are especially useful in a case where you only suspect that your spouse is cheating on you. The longer you let these doubts fester inside you, the more rage and distance you are building up. In fact, even if your spouse is not cheating, suspecting it for too long can destroy your marriage!

By hiring a private detective to investigate the matter, you can put your doubts to rest, one way or the other. This will spare you a great deal of pain, both immediately (as you question your spouse’s fidelity) and in the long run (if you must deal with the consequences of a cheating spouse).

Save it with Integrity or End it with Dignity

Ultimately, marriage is a very personal thing. Only you can decide what is right for you and your spouse. But if you plan on saving your marriage and forgiving your spouse, or ending it and keeping your dignity intact, a private investigator can be extremely helpful.