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Do You Believe in Magic?
BY BARBARA RAINEY
My beloved extended his hand through the opening, and my feelings were aroused for him. SONG OF SOLOMON 5:4
Most romantic relationships begin with a season we call “new love.” This season is characterized by an intense focus on each other, a strong mutual attraction, eager anticipation and enthusiasm for building a life together, and a great freedom to express physical intimacy (hopefully after marriage). Couples in new love are eager to sacrifice time and money to fuel this new experience. It feels so good. Their fears are minimized by the emotion of love, and they will talk for hours about their lives and dreams and hopes. New love is easy, delightful and intense. It is intoxicating and magical.
You’re probably thinking, Yes, I remember those days . . . But why shouldn’t your marriage be regularly infused with the thrills of anticipation and other swept-off-your-feet emotions? Why shouldn’t there be times when you feel like kids again, hardly able to keep your hands off each other? Why shouldn’t you use the time, money and resources you possess to arrange a romantic getaway? What would happen if you were to say to your wife, “I have a surprise for you next Tuesday at lunch?” All week long, she’d be wondering about what you had up your sleeve.
Or what if you sent your husband an email at work, telling him you had something special in mind for tonight, wondering if maybe he could get home a little earlier than usual (wink, wink)? Oswald Chambers, the great devotional author of the early 1900s, said, “Human nature, if it is healthy, demands excitement; and if it does not obtain its thrilling excitement in the right way, it will seek it in the wrong way. God never makes bloodless stoics. He makes passionate saints.” What have you done lately to rekindle the magic?
Talk about how marriage can rob your relationship of romance.
God is the creator of passion, excitement and romance. Ask Him to guide you ever closer to the love of your life.